Recently, a dear friend of mine (who I didn’t even realize was reading my blogs) reached out to me and candidly and bravely confessed that she had been feeling at rock bottom. Down and out, stressed, not taking care of her health (physical and mental), and just not feeling her usually cheerful and awesome self. It broke my heart but also really inspired me because so many of us can be prideful when we are feeling down…we think no one will understand, we don’t want to burden others with our problems…What we often forget is that almost everyone feels this way at one point or another. And I think that it’s our duty as human beings to lift others up when we are feeling strong and positive, because we never know when WE might need some lifting up.
Take yesterday for example. I took Sunday off from the gym (which I rarely do…I prefer taking rest days during the week) and woke up Monday on the wrong side of the bed. I didn’t go for my usual morning workout, just felt “off” all day, and kind of in a funk. My friends who follow astrology were posing on Facebook about Mercury being in retrograde, and apparently that can lead to this type of stuff…who knows, haha, but it sounds good.
Anyway, amidst my funky mood, I received the most awesome message from that same friend of mine I mentioned above…She was proudly reporting that she’s been hitting the gym, found a workout buddy, and has been practicing some really great self-care. I mean, wow, if that’s not inspiring I don’t know what is. It takes guts to 1. ask for help/encouragement and 2. actually take the steps to pull yourself out of a rut.
What this friend of mine didn’t know is that SHE was my source of inspiration yesterday. After a long day of work and feeling really blah, I didn’t really feel like working out. I was kind of in the mood to do some self-loathing (lame, but it happens to the best of us, haha), but then I thought of my friend, and how proud of her I was that she dug deep for the motivation to get herself back on track…and I dragged my grouchy butt to the gym!
While I marched on the StairMaster and slung some weights around, I thought of her and how she feels on days where she doesn’t feel up to working out, but she does it anyway. And when I got up this morning and resumed my morning workout, I looked around at all of the other people who got themselves out of bed to do something positive for their health, and I was so inspired.
On days where we’re feeling upbeat, strong, and capable, we have the opportunity to lift someone else up who might be feeling down that day. And in turn, we may inspire them to do the same when they get back on track.
“There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.” ― John Holmes
Ciao for now!